Elise is a friend; I vouch for her sincerity. Her account is here and elsewhere: Brandon Sanderson Blog: Guest post by Elise Matthesen: How to Report Sexual Harassment.
My only comment at this time: Stopping when you are first asked to stop is not some weird new feminist notion. It may be the oldest idea of how good men are supposed to treat all women. It is at least as old as chivalry, and I suspect there were Sumerians who understood that.